Write down your principles

Your principles are the rules governing your behavior. We hear this a lot from politicians and companies.  Politicians love to talk about family values, and corporations paint them all over their website. You’ll hear words like honesty, integrity, truth, kindness, etc. These are all rules that govern the behavior of the company’s employees or form the basis for how a politician will govern.

Have you stopped to ask yourself about your own principles? What are the rules that govern your decision making and behavior?

Ethical principles are honesty, authenticity, humbleness, kindness, justice. Not all beliefs are moral or right. There is no universal set of principles that everyone subscribes to. Someone else’s actions or conduct may be founded on greed, domination, winning, selfishness, survival of the fittest. Before you work with people, make sure you have a good idea about their value system and the foundation for their decision making.  Principles matter when the pressure is on.

 

Slow motion

In sports, there’s a theme: Slow down and don’t force it.

It’s like hitting a tennis ball, swinging a golf club, surfing a wave, swimming freestyle, snorkeling or cycling.

Slowing down is counterintuitive because we think speed means power, so we end up rushing. The truth is that speed is nothing without control.

The next time you are feeling short of time in the morning. Instead of rushing through an exercise routine and doing everything half-ass, pick three things and do them slowly and with maximum power. Maybe it’s one backbend, one warrior pose, and ten push-ups. That’s all. Three things done correctly, with your full attention will be more beneficial than ten things done in a rush.

 

 

 

 

Proficiency and Joy

Work hard every day. Turn up and go deep on stuff, but don’t ignore what brings you joy and what you are proficient in. Listen for feedback. Do people want to work with you again, is it satisfying, is it valued, are you proud of the product?

Double down where your proficiency and joy intersect. There’s no point working away at something in a mediocre way that makes you miserable.

Use what talents you possess, the woods will be very silent if no birds sang there except those who sang best – Henry Van Dyke

I’m a lucky man

The most important two steps to a successful career is to make sure you choose the right parents and country of birth!

I love working with people who acknowledge timing and luck as part of their story. They are the first people to pull others up and take a chance on someone who doesn’t have the pedigree or connections.

Calm and modest warriors

“A calm and modest life brings more happiness than the pursuit of success combined with constant restlessness.” — Albert Einstein

Calmness and modesty are character traits of fierce warriors. It’s strength, not a weakness.

It takes discipline and practice to remain calm when everyone else around you is restless and panicking.

Living a modest life in the age of consumption means looking for fulfillment in giving and service to others.

Take a breath, chill and wake up every morning with the intention to serve.

p.s. Smile first thing in the morning and pick something you are thankful for. It’s an effect starting block for the morning routine.

 

 

Ten dinner cooking tips

Buy a nonstick saucepan. Replace it every year. It doesn’t have to be made of kryptonite or unobtainium. A new pan washes easily and makes cooking a pleasure. Throw out the old pan and rotate.

Wash the pan once it’s cooled down. Washing the pan when it’s hot will wear away the nonstick stuff.

Eat leftovers. They last longer than you think. Get tastier over time and make one meal into three

Use ghee over butter or oil. It doesn’t smoke like oil and adds flavor.

If you can lean, then you can clean

Vegetarian dishes are easier to clean up than meat dishes. The ingredients last longer in the fridge.

There’s nothing a fried egg or avocado won’t solve. Just plop it on t with a bit of salt and pepper. Same for heirloom tomatoes 🍅

Undercooking your meat is okay. Salmonella is a thing, but most meat should be on the rare side.

If you have the time, cook food on medium heat versus incinerating it on high. It’ll take longer, but it’ll be juicer and more flavorsome.

Eat early. It’ll give you more time to digest your food and you’ll sleep better.

Be an optimistic realist

The right amount of skepticism means that you are humble enough and experienced enough to admit that there is never 100% certainty in an endeavor. Too much skepticism will paralyze you by thinking only about what could go wrong.

Be an optimistic realist.

Real matter

The answer is in the dirt. The devil is in the detail.

Go deep on stuff and the answers appear. If you are too high level then you won’t break through. Don’t be a jack of all trades and a master of none.

Going deep is a differentiator and is underestimated. Simplicty appears on the other side of complexity.

“The closer you get to real matter, rock, air, fire and wood, boy, the more spiritual the world is.” – Jack Kerouac