You don’t learn to ride a bike by reading about it. You learn by balancing and moving forward. Over time you get the muscle memory, learn how to adjust and have a few scrapes to prove it. The secret is to get on the bike and keep moving.

Most people just talk. And that where most ideas die. Some people get moving but then most give up after day one. The first wrong turn, small failure or funny look deflates them.

A small minority who persist, get it wrong, recalibrated and follow through. These are the last people left standing. They aren’t even the most talented people. Most of the gifted people are still talking about it either too distracted, seduced or scared to try something.

Don’t sit around waiting for inspiration. Start tweaking and tinkering now. And keep at it.

Postive thinking starts with action. It’s not the other way around. People have mantras, dream boards, journals, brainstorms – but none of that stuff matters if you aren’t doing anything about it.

Hang out with and work with positive, action orientated people. When you socialize with doers, it’ll become pretty obvious very quickly who is standing still and who is moving.

Doers don’t have the time or patience for downers and complainers. If they don’t want to be around you, it’s probably because you are a negative person. Misery loves company. Doers love action and positivity.

Doing is contagious. Once you get over the fear of making mistakes or looking silly, then you are 98% of the way there.

Develop daily rituals and habits. Habits and routines are exercises that craft and sculpt your character.

Be a happy warrior and do the work.

Follow themes and trends. Avoid the breaking news. Cancel cable news and “NewsTwitter.”

Don’t just avoid the clickbait, flee from it.

Pay for your news – subscribe to the Washington Post.

Don’t read the free daily clickbait blogs (tech, politics, entertainment). Gossip sites are free because you are the product and they are paid to get you to click. It’s like IHOP “All you can eat” but for news. You’ll leave feeling sorry for yourself and guilty. You wouldn’t accept free food from a random roadside food truck, so don’t do it with what you read.

Invest for the long term. Don’t pay attention to “market corrections,” “Trump bumps,” “Trade WARS,” crypto’s ups and downs. It’s all short-term BS, pontifications and breaking news. Invest in trendlines. Set it and forget it.

Read this every morning if you feel the urge to click. It’s like eating an apple instead of a Twinkie.

Stop thinking about life in terms of destinations.

When “x” happens then I will exercise more

When I have enough of “x”, then I will spend more time with friends.

“When” and whatever your “x” is not a certainty.

Right now is all you got.

No amount of anxiety makes any difference to anything that is going to happen. — Alan Watts

Anxiety adversely affects your health and mental well being and slowly poisons relationships.

Worry is addictive because it seduces you into thinking you are solving a problem by chewing on it and exploring all the terrible things that could go wrong in your head. There’s an illusion of action, but in reality, you are standing still and stressing out.

The antidote to anxiety is action. Write down what could go wrong and what could go right. After each bullet point write down the next step or something proactive you can do about it. Some bullets will be actionable and some won’t be. File away the non-actionable outcomes and focus on the results you can prepare for, optimize for or prevent.

“Each one hopes that if he feeds the crocodile enough, the crocodile will eat him last. All of them hope that the storm will pass before their turn comes to be devoured. But I fear greatly that the storm will not pass. It will rage, and it will roar ever more loudly, ever more widely.” – Winston Churchill

Take the short-term pain, to benefit from the long-term gain.

Most of the time appeasement just delays the inevitable. The source of the appeasement is usually fear of the unknown and lack of confidence. So we give into the fear and tolerate the bad behavior.

Making decisions and having the courage to follow through frees up space and lets everyone get on with life.

I’ve seen a lot of smart people get frustrated with their current careers, but refuse to do anything about it. These are people who are good at their jobs but find it really dull. It’s hamster wheel stuff. They tend to talk a lot about doing their own thing, starting something on the side, writing a book, traveling, taking time off, etc. but never do anything about it.

Talk is great, research will inform you, reading up on the topic will prepare and scare you. Opportunity favors the prepared mind, but there comes a time when you gotta move.

Talking to mentors and elders about shared experiences will give you a false sense of momentum, but the truth is that the hardest decisions in life are made on your own. Most of the things you’ll build and the mistakes you’ll make will happen when you are alone.

Carve out time, which means less time on the web, less time social media and start the work.

I captured this early morning light in Marin, California today. Spring is coming.

The best camera in the world is the camera you have with you when the moment is right.

People interpret politeness as weakness.

People interpret bellicosity as strength and power.

Power is inversely proportional to the amount of huffing and puffing you see in a confrontation.

Less chest thumping, more deep breathing.

Move slowly, be gentle, breath deeply. Don’t let them see you coming.